I have news, sorta. I had an abnormal pap test about three months ago, had a colposcopy late last month, and found out that I have a mild dysplasia (kind of like a cyst) in my cervix. Basically they have to go in, numb the area and dig it out. I'm not happy but rather fairly worried. I mean I can't really afford it so John's said he's going to take care of it (i.e. pay me back via my credit card) but I wonder how quickly he can do that considering my college money is due the very same day as my appointment (assuming I change it to installments, which I'm going to do, that may be possible but over a couple of weeks). *sigh*
We had talked about doing the courthouse route to take care of a legal wedding however knowing John we wouldn't really do a "second wedding" just to satisfy my emotional/spiritual felings on it Help!